What the heck is a weblog, anyway?

A weblog (or often just "blog" for short, as in the name of this site) is a frequently updated web page made up of typically short posts in reverse chronological order, usually with links to cool and interesting finds on the Net, or diary entries about someone's life, or often, a little of both.

For more information, see the essay weblogs: a history and perspective from Rebecca Blood, author of The Weblog Handbook; or Anatomy of a Weblog, by Cameron Barrett; or read what several webloggers had to say about blogging at powazek.com.

You can find more sex weblogs at Open Directory's Adult Journals category, which, I might add, has had the good taste to select SexBlogs.org as a Cool Site.

A lover of mine shyly introduced me to this toy years ago, as if I wouldn't be interested in seeing the toy that had finally taught her how to orgasm. Since then, I've bought these for lovers and friends; women who have trouble reaching orgasm think it's a godsend, and women who don't find this gives them harder, more intense orgasms than anything else. I've brought other toys into the bedroom, before and since, but this is the one I keep coming back to. -- Adam Selene

Hitachi Magic Wand, $50 at Babeland

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The SexBlogs.org Manifesto

We started this website with a simple question: Do adult websites always have to be so damn tacky?

You know exactly what I'm talking about. From the content to the presentation, everything about most adult sites speaks to the mindset of a pack of giggling, nasty, twelve-year-old boys, boys who are still delighted they can get away with bad words and naughty jokes, boys who have discovered they want girls but still fear and distrust and hate them.

On these sites, you are treated badly -- with blind links and endless pop-ups and any trick they can think of to get everything they can out of you. And the models are treated badly -- called derogatory names and presented as mindless holes.

We actually like women. (And men, too, for that matter.) Where's our porn?

In real life, sex is so much more than just one-dimensional. It's pan-dimensional. Sex encompasses the whole spectrum of human experience. Sex can be degrading and tawdry, but it can also be fun and funny, spiritual and enlightening, streamlined and dangerous, sweet and shy. It can be the closest thing to magic any of us will ever know.

Here are a few truths we think ought to be self-evident:

1. Just because you have an interest in sex does not mean there is something wrong with you.
2. Similarly, just because someone chooses to write about sex, or model for erotica, it does not mean there is something wrong with them.
3. It doesn't matter if you call it "erotica." It doesn't matter if you call it "pornography." Hell, it doesn't matter if you call it "Fred." All that matters is that you know what you like and what you don't like and you don't have to justify it to anyone else.

Books and magazines seem to finally get it. It's not that hard to find well-written, intelligent novels or non-fiction that deal with sex.

We think it's time the web grew up.

We want to help. We want to make it easy for you to find real information, beautiful photographs, and smut for people who think.

All of our sponsors and affiliates listed in the websites we love sections of these pages are sites we really do enjoy, ones we honestly feel good about giving our personal recommendation. Sites that we think are intelligent, sexy, and creative -- sites people with a twelve-year-old mindset wouldn't know what to do with. We think they're worth your time and we hope you check them out.

And we want to keep on bringing you great sites. And we want to do it day after day after day.

SexBlogs.org features both original content and news automatically gathered from the best sex weblogs on the Net.

So why weblogs?

There are some people who think the whole "weblog fad" has already reached its peak. But we think that peak is just the tip of the iceberg. Weblogging is only going to become more visible, more common.

Sex is a subject that really benefits from the weblog treatment. Sex is a subject that, frankly, is hard to talk about in polite company. But it's important to talk about it, to bring it out into the light, chase out all the demons and shame we associate with it.

The easy-to-publish, one-to-many format of weblogs bring us strongly personal voices. It brings us honesty and personality.

They also bring a real gender balance to the discussion. Browse through our weblog directory and you'll find there are as many women as there are men writing about sex, smart and unafraid.

We think sex and weblogs are a natural fit. We think they go together like silk scarves and bedposts. Keep reading and see if you don't agree.  

"Adam Selene" is your webdaddy here at SexBlogs.org, another dot-com burnout living in lovely Seattle, WA. An active weblogger since 1999, he's always had a keen interest in sexuality, an interest he shares with approximately 6.3 billion people.